My Abundant Life 4-13-26

April 13th, 2026

The Only Weight-Loss Aid You’ll Ever Need

“Self-love is the only weight-loss aid that really works in the long run.”

Genevieve Marie Craig (Jenny Craig) (American Businesswoman; August 7th, 1932)

“…food is not our enemy. If we’re alive, we’re supposed to love to eat. Food is the source of vital fuel our bodies convert to energy in order to survive.”

“Don’t fight your hunger. Instead, respect it and respond to it with nutritious food that appeals to all your senses–not just taste but sight and smell as well.”

“..the more we starve ourselves, the more weight we eventually gain, and then we end up hating ourselves.”

“The only way to stop this heartbreaking cycle of self-loathing is to stop dieting and use our common sense. Eat when you’re hungry, drink when you’re thristy, sleep when you’re tired, get in harmony with your body through regular exercise, and nourish your soul through prayer and meditation.”

“Be really whole, and all things will come to you.”

Lao-Tzu (Chinese Philosopher; 571 B.C.)

“Taoism–the Eastern philosophy of Lao-Tzu–teaches that the only way to be made Whole is to yield. Yield to the fact that your body answers to a Wisdom that’s higher than wanting to look like the waif on the cover of Vogue.”

“Every woman has an ideal weight that’s ideal for her opposed to an ideal weight. This is the weight at which you feel the most comfortable, have the mot energy, can stay well and feel good about how you look. We can achieve that weight whenwe begin to trust our bodies. Forget size and abandon the scale. Instead, of weighing yourself, let your favorite clothes tell you how you are doing. Above all, trust the guidance of your authentic self. Go within and visualize her. See what weoght she carries. Ask her to help you achieve your perfect weight through the power of Love. Today, be willing to believe that self-love is the only weight-loss aid you’ll ever truly need, because it’s the only one that works.”

“All of this advice is true. For the last 30+ years I have been counseling and working alongside all types of people desiring to get to their full potential. Whether that be weight, athletics, mental toughness, etc. they all had to let go or yield to what they thought they knew and listen to their bodies.”


–Ban Breathnach, Sarah. “Simple Abundance: A Daybook of Comfort and Joy”. Grand Central Publishing. (1976). Kindle Page 117 to 118 of 501.

I challenge each of you on this blog series to post comments so we all can grow together.

My Abundant Life 1-6-26

January 6th, 2026

Standing Knee-Deep in a River and Dying of Thirst

“The thirst after happiness is never extinguished in the heart of [woman].”

Jean-Jacques Rousseau (Genevan Philosopher, Writer, and Composer; June 28th, 1712 ~ July 2nd, 1778)

“The revelation that we have everything we need in life to make us happy but simply lack the conscious awareness to appreciate it.”

“This is so true. Post divorce and still struggling with reconnection with my children seemed to color my context in a dull tone. Even though I had made much progress, my “perfect” context was weighing me down. I now accept all things as just what is so and create possibilities that I am in action on to recolor my world. I am the artist of my own life and my life is my canvas.” (Heather Houston 1-6-22)

“The life I am living in 2026 is amazing. I am powerful, free and fully self-expressed. I am removing decades of wounds and reclaiming my sacredness. I am truly blessed and the happiest I have ever been in my entire life.” (Heather Houston 1-6-26)

“Let’s choose today to quench our thirst for ‘the good life’ we think others lead by acknowledging the good that already exists in our own lives. We can offer the Universe the gift of our grateful hearts.”

“My love told me early in our relationship that he believed the access to happiness was gratitude. I too believe this as I have experienced unending happiness the last three years. The mindful gratitude bookending I incorporate each day has afforded me acknowledgement of the abundance in my life and has yielded me peace and happiness.” (Heather Houston 1-5-22)

“Still true, except I am even happier.” (Heather Houston 1-6-26)


–Ban Breathnach, Sarah. “Simple Abundance: A Daybook of Comfort and Joy”. Grand Central Publishing. (1976). Kindle Page 5-6 of 501.

I challenge each of you on this blog series to post comments so we all can grow together.