July 31st, 2026

- I appreciate the pet that brings joy to my home.
- I forgive others with grace and ease.
- I feel connected to the people around me.
- I am safe in my relationships.
- I radiate love to the world.
Ramblings, ideas and memoirs of a joyous adventurer. Absinthe aficionado. Empathetic thinker-feeler. Verbose writer. Avidly authentic. Hydrangea fanatic. Snow leopard lover. Joy huntress. Promising my devotees a honest glimpse into my life as I live with freedom, power and full self-expression in an unfiltered and sometimes distilled way. CHEERS!








“Difficult times have helped me to understand better than before how infinitely rich and beautiful life is in every way and that so many things that one goes worrying about are of no importance whatsoever.”
Isak Dinesen (Karen Blixen) (Danish Author; April 17th, 1885 to September 7th, 1962)
“Are you a worrier? We all are to a certain extent, but some of us are more pessimistic than others, and when we worry, it’s always the worst possible thing that comes first to mind. Worrying is a great thief of time.”
“Often when we stew, we think that we’re doing something positive about the problem; at least we’re thinking about it. Instead, we’ve set off an escalating spiral that can ruin an entire day–for ourselves and those in our vicinity.”
“I learned that simply to ask a blessing upon one’s circumstances, whatever they are, is somehow to improve them, and to tap some mysterious source of energy and joy. …I came upon one of the most ancient and universal truths–that to affirm and to claim God’s help even before it is given, is to receive it.”
Marjorie Holmes (American Columnist; 1910 to March 13th, 2002)
“Lift up your worries and ask for grace to get through the rest of the day. There is an abundance of amazing grace available to all of us if we simply learn to ask for it.”
“Desire, Ask, Believe, Receive.”
Stella Terrill Mann (American Lecturer & Author; 1898 to 1990)
“I have spent most of my life worrying about things that have never happened.”
Mark Twain (Writer; November 30th, 1835 to April 21st, 1910)
“Worrying about the future robs you of the present moment.”
“I’m not going to think about this right now, I’ll think about this tomorrow, After all, tomorrow is another day.”
Scarlett O’Hara (Fictional Character; the complex, headstrong protagonist of Margaret Mitchell’s 1936 novel Gone with the Wind)
“Declare your personal independence: choose to live authentically as a dreamer, not an ‘expector.'”
“If you worry you still are going to eventually die. If you don’t worry, you still will eventually die. So why worry?”
–Ban Breathnach, Sarah. “Simple Abundance: A Daybook of Comfort and Joy”. Grand Central Publishing. (1976). Kindle Page 277 to 278 of 501.
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“Lost, yesterday, somewhere between sunrise and sunset, two golden hours, each set with sixty diamond minutes. No reward is offered, for they are gone forever.”
Horace Mann (American Educational Reformer & Politician; May 4th, 1796 to August 2nd, 1859)
“Nothing dies harder than a bad habit. Usually we know whenever we’re doing something that’s not good for us because the small voice that resides in the center of our heads can be a pretty vigilant nag.”
“Too often we’re unaware of the other ways in which we rob ourselves of precious moments that could be spent nurturing our creativity. These are unconscious habits that the Surgeon General doesn’t warn us about but that our authentic selves will. For as long as we continue to cling to bad habits that may not be life-threatening but certainly aren’t life-enhancing, we only steal from our potential.”
“I haven’t had too many vices throughout my life as a professional athlete and coach. However, I maintain those things which entice my senses as that makes me feel alive and honors my ability to sense. Delicious food, tantalizing cocktails and extraordinary sex are all must stays…Drugs Sex & Rock-n-Roll FOREVER!“
–Ban Breathnach, Sarah. “Simple Abundance: A Daybook of Comfort and Joy”. Grand Central Publishing. (1976). Kindle Page 276 to 277 of 501.
I challenge each of you on this blog series to post comments so we all can grow together.

While driving to work westbound, I saw an flying west and being pestered by 6 seagulls. I’m so blessed and in the “FLOW”.🦅










“Only a very exceptionally gifted mind could cope singly with all the problems which present themselves in the perfecting of a home.”
Arnold Bennett (Author; May 27th, 1867 to March 27th, 1931)
“I have not had a home I chose and had the urge to make mine. I was always battling with three other voices in the household. Now I rent so exploring this is limited. What I have done however is reduce “stuff” to essentials to live comfortably and more simply. I find this invigorating.”
–Ban Breathnach, Sarah. “Simple Abundance: A Daybook of Comfort and Joy”. Grand Central Publishing. (1976). Kindle Page 275 to 276 of 501.
I challenge each of you on this blog series to post comments so we all can grow together.